Effectively discipling begins in the home! For the Jews the ministry center of the family is the home. For Christians the ministry center has become the church. Making disciples begins in the home. Family meals, communion, prayer, Bible reading and overall time together as a family.
We are to be rooted and we are to be grounded in love. Not either but both. Rooted is an agricultural term while grounded is an architectural term. Agriculturally we understand you can’t have fruit before you take root. Architecturally we understand the building cannot be built until the foundation this established. Both of these ideas speak of that which is unseen taking place before that which is seen emerges.